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Who is going to protect the children from the Social Services?

Children who are often in a so called abusive family, are taken away from their family and are put into a foster family or some other ward of the state. Appeantly, the abuse does not stop there. In recent months, a pastor and his wife in Oklahoma were charged for sexually molesting two 14 year old girls that they were caring for, a social worker was recently charged with child abuse and who could forget the case in DC over a year ago where a well known and liked foster mother of the Social Service was found to have a dead child in the freezer. Are we taking the abused child from the pan and putting them into the fire?

The recent incidents does not really cause for a complete rebuild of the social services, but a better check on the caregivers could help. DC had pratically revamped their employees. For most states, the caseloads are over whelmimg and the manpower is low. Then you have the false reports that also put a burden on the over taxed system in the first place.

Of course, there are those that abuse the system. Some localities pay for having foster children. This may be incentive enough to have help for the children, but it also will bring out those that are there for just the money. Some of the social workers, sonce being on the inside, knows how to ‘work’ the system. This is an unfair advantage to those that actually go to social services for help and are turned away because there is no help avaliable or there is not enough money. 

Whatever happens, something needs to be done to help protect pur children instead of putting them in a worse situation. How can a social worker declare a family unfit to care for their onw child when the social worker may not be fit themselves? With today’s tough economic times, families that are having troubles is facing a nightmare. However it may be, the system that was once useful is now broken and it is a time for a fix.

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What to do with $200 Million Dollars

Congratulations to the to the William’s family in Shenandoah, Virginia for winning the recent $200 million lottery. I am sure that this could not have come at a better time, but then again, it may make their lives more difficult. I would like to ask those that normally do not associate with this family to kindly keep your distance. Put the shoe on the other foot. Would you want to be bothered by people you do not know or do not neccessarily associate with in the past? I did not now will I attempt to contact this family for an interview, because they will be hounded by the media hounds anyway.

The winning has me thinking. What would you do with all that money? Past lottery winners have spoken out it being a curse from suicides to being kidnapped to filing for bankruptcies because they have failed to manage their money. Other winners have success. Here is what I would if I had won that money or any amount of the lottery.

First thing I would do is see what the actual amount I will recieve. The government will take I believe about 40% of the winning. I used to go to church, so the church I used to attend will get a donation. Then I would turn my attention on my immediate family. Pay off all the bills except for the utilities which will continue as long as you rent or mortgage. If I have a mortgage, then that would be paid off also. By a car? Nah, unless I really had too, but then it would not be a new one. Then I would look at my extended family and closest friends. In my case, I only have very close friends so that would be easy. After that, I put some to the side then give the rest away.

This is wishful thinking of course, but always a contingency plan if the inevitable will ever come true. Again, congrats to the Williams family.

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Dining out with a handicapped Child

dining_outThere was a letter written to the Page County Watch Blog by a couple who had recently went to a restaurant with their autistic child. In the article, they explained about their displeasure on the service they recieved with the waitstaff. Another patron that was there had told the story from their point of view in the comment section. The point is that parents that have handicapped children should not be treated like a lepor but he parent of the handicapped child should know that is the child is being difficult, to try to find out what is wrong. Most parents know that children act differently to different situations. Sometimes, restaurants will get upset if you bring a child in that is misbehaving and other customers start leaving because of it. Yes they are losing business, but the parent of the child should also try to take note and leave and try again another day if the child is having an off day. If you had already ordered your food, some establishments may left you go for free. {loadposition myposition3}If the waitstaff is being rude to you, then fell free not to leave a tip. Even if you are in the right, go ahead and apologize to the manager and tell them you will be back to try again. If he complains that patrons had left because of the child, just tell the manager that you are sorry but you have no controll over disrepectful people and the reason you are leaving for the time being is out of respect for the restaurant. Unless someone has a handicapped child, the waitstaff is not going to understand. If an adult handicapped person had come in and caused a disturbance, the waitstaff would had more than likely deal with it. Dining out should be a pleasant experience all around. Somewhere, someone has to be the better person.

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